The Pursuit Of Happiness Read online

  Eventually – after much strained talk about the prettiness of the Bryn Mawr campus, and the bad standard of service on the train from Hartford, and which neighbor's boy was serving in which corner of Europe or the Pacific – Father suddenly said, 'I just want you to know, Sara, that Mother and I are most pleased with your cum laude degree. It is quite an achievement.'

  'But it's not summa cum laude, like me,' Eric said, his eyebrows arching mischievously.

  'Thanks a lot,' I said.

  'Anytime, S.'

  'You have both done us proud,' Mother said.

  'Academically speaking,' Father added.

  'Yes,' Mother said quickly, 'academically speaking, we couldn't be prouder parents.'

  That was the last time we were ever together as a family. Six weeks later – returning home to the Barbizon Hotel for Women after a long day at Life – I was stunned to see Eric standing in the lobby. His face was chalky, drawn. He looked at me with trepidation – and I knew immediately that he had something terrible to tell me.

  'Hi, S,' he said quietly, taking my hands in his.

  'What's happened?'

  'Father died this morning.'

  I heard my heart pound against my ribcage. For a moment or two I really didn't know where I was. Then I felt my brother's steadying hands on my arms. He led me to a sofa, and helped me down into it, sitting next to me.

  'How?' I finally said.

  'A heart attack – at his office. His secretary found him slumped over his desk. It must have been pretty instantaneous . . . which is a blessing, I guess.'

  'Who told Mother?'

  'The police. And then the Daniels called me. They said Mom's pretty distraught.'

  'Of course she's distraught,' I heard myself saying. 'He was her life.'

  I felt a sob rise up in my throat. But I stifled it. Because I suddenly heard Father's voice in my head: ' Crying is never an answer,' he once told me when I burst into tears after getting a C+ in Latin. 'Crying is self-pity. And self-pity solves nothing.'

  Anyway, I didn't know what to feel at this moment – except the jumbled anguish of loss. I loved Father. I feared Father. I craved his affection. I never truly felt his affection. Yet I also knew that Eric and I meant everything to him. He just didn't know how to articulate such things. Now he never would. That was the realization which hit me hardest – the fact that, now, there would never be a chance for us to breach the gulf that was always between us; that my memory of Father would always be colored by the knowledge that we never really talked. I think that is the hardest thing about bereavement – coming to terms with what might have been, if only you'd been able to get it right.

  I let Eric take charge of everything. He helped me pack a bag. He got us both into a cab to Penn Station, and on the 8.13 to Hartford. We sat in the bar car, and drank steadily as the train headed north through Fairfield County. Never once did he seem stricken by grief – because, I sensed, he wanted to remain strong for me. What was so curious about our conversation was how little we talked about Father, or Mother. Instead we chatted idly – about my work at Life, and Eric's Theater Guild job, and rumors emanating from Eastern Europe about Nazi-run death camps, and whether Roosevelt would keep Henry Wallace as his Vice-President during next year's Presidential campaign, and why Lillian Hellman's Watch on the Rhine was (in Eric's unrestrained opinion) a truly terrible play. It was as if we couldn't yet bring ourselves to deal with the profundity of losing a parent – especially one about which we both had such complex, ambivalent feelings. Only once during that journey was the matter of family mentioned . . . when Eric said, 'Well, I guess you can move out of the Barbizon now.'

  'Won't Mother object?' I asked.

  'Believe me, S – Mother will have other things on her mind.'

  How dreadfully accurate Eric turned out to be. Mother wasn't simply grief-stricken by Father's death; she was inconsolable. During the three days before the funeral, she was so despondent that the family doctor kept her under sedation. She got through the actual service at the local Episcopal church, but came completely unstuck at the graveside. So unstuck that the doctor recommended admitting her to a rest home for observation.

  She never left that rest home again. Within a week of her admission, a form of premature senile dementia had set in – and we lost her completely. A variety of specialists examined her – and they all came to the same conclusion: in the wake of Father's death, her grief had been so intense, so overwhelming, that she suffered a stroke which gradually attacked her speech, her memory, her motor control. For the first few months of her illness, Eric and I traveled back together every weekend to Hartford, to sit by her bed and hope for some sign of cognitive life. After six months, the doctors told us that it was unlikely that she would ever emerge from her dementia. That weekend we made some difficult, but necessary decisions. We put the family home on the market. We arranged for all of our parents' possessions to be sold, or given away to charity. Neither of us took much from the family home. Eric laid claim to a small writing table which Father kept in his bedroom. I held on to a photo, taken in 1913, of my parents on their honeymoon in the Berkshires. Mother was seated in a stiff-backed chair, wearing a long-sleeved white linen dress, her hair gathered up into a tightly constricted bun. Father was standing by her. He was in a dark cutaway suit, with a vest and a stiff high-collar. His left hand was behind his back, his right hand on Mother's shoulder. There was no glimmer of affection between them; no sense of ardour, or romantic animation, or even the simple pleasure of being in each other's company. They looked so stiff, so formal, so unsuited to the century in which they found themselves.

  On the night Eric and I were sorting through their possessions – and we came upon this photograph in the attic – my brother burst into tears. It was the only time I ever saw him cry since Father had died and Mother took ill (whereas I had been regularly locking myself in the Ladies' room at Life, and blubbering like a fool). I knew exactly why Eric had suddenly broken down. Because that photograph was the perfect portrait of the formal, constrained face that our parents presented to the world . . . and, more tellingly, to their children. We always thought that their austerity extended to each other – because there were never any public displays of affection between them. But now we realized that there was this hidden passion between them – a love and a dependency so profound that it killed Mother to be without Father. What astonished us both was that we never saw this passion, never detected it for a moment.

  'You never really know anybody,' Eric said to me that night. 'You think you do – but they always end up baffling you. Especially when it comes to love. The heart is the most secretive – and confounding – part of the anatomy.'

  My one antidote at this time was my job. I loved working at Life. Especially since, within four months, I had graduated from trainee status to the post of junior staff writer. I was researching and writing at least two short articles for the magazine every week. I was assigned the stories by a senior editor – a chain-smoking old-school journalist named Leland McGuire, who used to be the City editor on the New York Daily Mirror, but had moved to Life for the money and the gentler hours, and really missed the rough-and-tumble of a big raucous daily newspaper. He took a shine to me – and, shortly after I joined his department, took me out to lunch at the Oyster Bar in the basement of Grand Central Station.

  'You want a piece of professional advice?' he asked me after we worked our way through two cups of chowder and a dozen cherrystones.

  'Absolutely, Mr McGuire.'

  'Leland, please. Okay – here it is. If you really want to become a properly seasoned journalist, get the hell out of the Time and Life building and find a reporter's job at some big-deal daily. I'm sure I could help you there. Find you something at the Mirror or the News.'

  'You're not happy with my work so far?'

  'On the contrary – I think you're terrific. But face facts: Life is, first and foremost, a picture magazine. Our senior writers are all men – and they're the one
s who get sent out to cover the big stuff: the London blitz, Guadalcanal, FDR's next campaign. All I can give you is the arts-and-craft stuff: little five-hundred-word pieces on this month's big new movie, or a new fashion craze, or cookery tips. Whereas if you went to the City desk of the Mirror, you'd probably find yourself out on the beat with the cops, covering the courts, maybe even getting a real juicy assignment like an execution at Sing-Sing.'

  'I don't think executions are really my sort of thing, Mr McGuire.'

  'Leland! You really were raised far too well, Sara. Another Manhattan?'

  'One's my limit at lunch, I'm afraid.'

  'Then you really shouldn't go to the Mirror. Or maybe you should because after a month there, you'll know how to drink three Manhattans at lunchtime, and still function.'

  'I really am very happy at Life. And I am learning a lot.'

  'So you don't want to be some hard-as-nails Barbara Stanwyck lady reporter?'

  'I want to write fiction, Mr McGuire . . . sorry, Leland.'

  'Oh, brother . . .'

  'Have I said something wrong?'

  'Nah. Fiction's fine. Fiction's great. If you can cut it.'

  'I am certainly going to try.'

  'And then, I suppose, it's a hubby and kids and a nice house in Tarrytown.'

  'That's not really high on my list of priorities.'

  He drained his martini. 'I've heard that one before.'

  'I'm certain you have. But, in my case, it's the truth.'

  'Sure it is. Until you meet some guy and decide you're tired of the daily nine-to-five grind, and want to settle down and have someone else pay the bills, and figure this nice Ivy League type is a suitable candidate for entrapment, and . . .'

  I suddenly heard myself sounding rather cross. 'Thank you for reducing me to the level of female cliché.'

  He was taken aback by my tone. 'Hell, I was just talking out of the side of my mouth.'

  'Of course you were.'

  'I didn't mean to offend you.'

  'No offence taken, Mr McGuire.'

  'Sounds like you're pretty damn angry to me.'

  'Not angry. I just don't like to be pigeonholed as some predatory female.'

  'But you are one tough cookie.'

  'Aren't cookies meant to be tough?' I said lightly, shooting him a sarcastically sweet smile.

  'Your brand certainly comes that way. Remind me never to ask you out for a night on the town.'

  'I don't date married men.'

  'You don't take any prisoners either. Your boyfriend must have a fireproof brain.'

  'I don't have a boyfriend.'

  'Surprise, surprise.'

  The reason I didn't have a boyfriend was a simple one: at that juncture in my life, I was simply too busy. I had my job. I had my first apartment: a small studio, on a beautiful leafy corner of Greenwich Village called Bedford Street. Most of all, I had New York – and that was the best romance imaginable. Though I'd visited it regularly over the years, living there was another matter altogether – and there were times when I literally thought I had landed in a playground for adults. To someone raised within the sedate, conservative, meddlesome confines of Hartford, Connecticut, Manhattan was a heady revelation. To begin with, it was so amazingly anonymous. You could become quite invisible, and never feel as if anyone was looking over your shoulder in disapproving judgment (a favorite Hartford pastime). You could stay out all night. Or spend half a Saturday losing yourself in the eight miles' worth of books at the Strand Bookshop. Or hear Ezio Pinza sing the title role of Don Giovanni at the Met for fifty cents (if you were willing to stand). Or grab dinner at Lindy's at three a.m. Or get up at dawn on a Sunday, stroll over to the Lower East Side, buy fresh pickles from the barrel on Delancey Street, then fall into Katz's deli for the sort of pastrami-on-rye that bordered on a religious experience.

  Or you could just walk – which I did endlessly, obsessively. Huge walks – from my apartment on Bedford Street all the way north to Columbia University. Or across the Manhattan Bridge and up Flatbush Avenue to Park Slope. What I discovered during these walks was that New York was like a massive Victorian novel which forced you to work your way through its broad canvas and complicated sub-plots. Being an impatient sort of reader I found myself compulsively caught up in its narrative, wondering where it would bring me next.

  The sense of freedom was extraordinary. I was no longer under parental supervision. I was paying my own way in life. I answered to nobody. And thanks to my brother Eric I had a direct entree into Manhattan's more esoteric underside. He seemed to know every arcane resident of the city. Czech translators of medieval poetry. All-night jazz disc jockeys. Emigré German sculptors. Would-be composers who were writing atonal operas about Gawain . . . in short, the sort of people you would never meet in Hartford, Connecticut. There were also a lot of political types . . . most of whom were either teaching at assorted colleges around town, or writing for small left-wing journals, or running little charities that supplied clothes and food to 'our fraternal Soviet comrades, valiantly fighting the forces of fascism' . . . or words to that effect.

  Naturally, Eric tried to get me interested in his brand of left-wing politics. But I simply wasn't interested. Do understand – I did respect Eric's passion for his cause. Just as I also respected (and agreed with) his hatred of social injustice, and economic inequality. But what I didn't agree with was the way his political friends treated their beliefs as a sort of lay religion – of which they were the high priests. Thank God he left the Party in '41. I'd met a few of his 'comrades' when I'd visited him in Manhattan during college – and, my God, talk about dogmatic people! They really thought that theirs was the true way, the only way . . . and they would not broach any dissenting views. Which is one of the many reasons why Eric got fed up with them and left.

  At least none of his political friends ever asked me out . . . which was something of a relief. Because, by and large, they were such a grim, glum bunch.

  'Don't you know any funny Communists?' I asked him one Sunday over a late lunch at Katz's deli.

  'A "funny Communist" is an oxymoron,' he said,

  'You're a funny Communist.'

  'Keep your voice down,' he whispered.

  'I really don't think J. Edgar Hoover has agents stationed in Katz's.'

  'You never know. Anyway, I am an ex-Communist.'

  'But you're still pretty hard left.'

  'Left of center. A Henry Wallace Democrat.'

  'Well, I promise you this: I'd never go out with a Communist.'

  'On patriotic grounds?'

  'No – on the grounds that he wouldn't be able to make me laugh.'

  'Did Horace Cowett make you laugh?'

  'Sometimes, yes.'

  'How could anyone with the name of Horace Cowett make anybody laugh?'

  Eric had a point – though, at least, Horace didn't look as preposterous as his name. He was tall and gangly, with thick black hair and horn-rimmed glasses. He favored tweed jackets and knit ties. At twenty he already resembled a tenured professor. He was quiet, bordering on shy, but intensely bright, and a terrific talker once he was comfortable with you. We met at a Haverford/Bryn Mawr mixer, and went out for all my senior year. My parents really thought he was a splendid catch – I had my doubts, although Horace had his virtues, especially when it came to talking about novels by Henry James or portraits by John Singer Sargent (his favorite writer, his favorite painter). Though he didn't exactly exude joie de vivre, I did like him . . . though not enough to let him take me to bed. Then again, Horace never tried very hard on that front. We'd both been brought up far too well.